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  1. Julia
    2016-05-10 @ 9:08 PM

    Dear Sushma, Please forgive me for not writing you back sooner. I can hardly imagine the pain you are in. I think you need to make contact with him yourself. Look on my homepage at the bottom for how-to tips. Or you can book a session with me and I’ll walk you through it. Children usually do very well after death, by the way. I am far more worried about you!

    Julia

  2. Munish
    2016-09-07 @ 10:22 AM

    I lost my only toddler son who was eighteen months of age. He died of an allergic reaction to a hepatitis vaccination whereby he started having difficulty in breathing the very next day. The doctors could not diagnose the cause nor could I at that time. The condition of my toddler deteriorated after he was put on a ventilator and as one of the lungs got damaged in the process. It was extremely painful losing him.I did not want to live and decided to commit suicide but delayed it due to one or another reason……..I now want him to reborn in my family as my son…….Is it possible?….. please guide me….what should I do…..I am helpless…..and in deep agony.

    • Julia
      2016-09-07 @ 12:01 PM

      Dear Munish, I can understand the agony you are in. Suicide will not help and there is no guarantee that you will see you son on the other side either. But you can communicate with him. Many mothers of done this and found it life-changing. Look at my tips at the bottom of my homepage to start. You must also work through the guilt. Rest assured, no one dies without a deep inner agreement to do so.

      Sometimes a child who dies traumatically or who dies in the womb or just after birth will come back to the same family. Doing so is not always an ideal situation for many reasons. It is his decision, not yours. A better way to get over the agony would be first, to work out the guilt, perhaps with a professional and second to communicate. You may see your son growing up. Even a toddler will have the ability to communicate like an adult. You might also consider going to a specialist who will put you in direct contact with your child. For you direct contact would be the way to go. Going to a medium may cause more distress, as though you lost your child a second time once the session is over. The specialists work in a relatively new field called Induced After-Death Communication Therapy. They do marvelous work. Here’s the link: http://www.induced-adc.com/

      Go to the site and find a therapist near you. They use special techniques to get you into contact.

      I am so very sorry for the pain you are in. Do not forget, in the meantime, that your son is no doubt in great shape now while you are suffering.

      Julia

  3. Munish
    2016-09-08 @ 3:54 PM

    Thanks Julia for your advice…I am grateful. Can you please suggest me dome therapist in India…Thanks…..regards Munish

    • Julia Assante
      2019-05-19 @ 10:55 AM

      Dear Munish, I have no idea really. Look up Induced After-Death Communication Therapy. The website has a list of specialized therapist around the world.

  4. Munish
    2016-09-08 @ 3:55 PM

    Thanks Julia for your advice…I am grateful. Can you please suggest me some therapist in India…Thanks…..regards Munish

    • Julia
      2016-09-09 @ 9:03 PM

      I wish I could. There may be an Induced After-death Communication Therapist there. They are now all over the world. Did you look at the link I sent you?

  5. Milli
    2017-02-04 @ 9:39 AM

    my 16 year old son died of suicide. I can not communicate with him. I do not want to live either. I do not know why he did so. Missing him terribly. What to do. It has been 10 days that he is dead

    • Julia
      2017-03-05 @ 10:40 AM

      Milli, there is nothing more painful than what you are going through. Please look at the bottom of my homepage for tips on how to communicate with him. YOU CAN DO IT! Alternatives are making an appointment with a medium. I do that through teleconferencing. Or you could find one through the Forever Family Foundation. Another possibility, which may be the best, is to go to a specialist who will put you in direct contact with your son. You can find out more about this by going to: http://www.induced-adc.com/

      My heart hurts for you.

      Julia

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